Rishtey.... (Empowerment of Couples by BJS)

My Dear Jaycees,

Bharatiya Jain Sanghatana (BJS) is happy to announce Empowerment of Couples Program.  JCI Bangalore Garden city is facilitating its members to benifit from this immensely popular program.

Empowerment of Couples

Rationale

Marriage is a sacred union of two unknown individuals, who come together, live together and grow together. They have the blessings of Bhagwan Mahavira. Though they are made in heaven, they are solemnized on earth. Then why is it that after marriage some couples cannot live together happily, there are tensions between husband and wife, between the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law and sometimes with the father-in-law also. Our society is becoming plaqued with unhappy home. This is becoming a burning issue among young married couples, not only amongst the jain community but in all communities across the world. A survey was carried out and feelings of a large number of newly married couples were recorded, a need analysis was done and found that certain issues and areas which need to be addressed urgently for the harmony of Indian Family and Indian Society. The areas are

• Lack of understanding
• No acceptance of changed environment
• High and unrealistic expectations
• Reluctance to compromise
• Difficulties in adjustment.
• Unfulfilled commitments
• Unaware and unprepared to manage pressures after marriage
• Disrespect
• Unwarranted interference by girls parents
• Lack of quality time that couples get to spend with each other
• Lack of meaningful communication
• Comparison (before & after marriage): Freedom before marriage and responsibilities after marriage

The programmed is aimed at

This program brings happiness in the married life and helps the couple in understanding the following issues of married life.

• Acceptance of changed environment both for the wife & the family members.
• Expectations from each other
• Adjustments to be done in married lie
• Giving time and space to each other
• Compromises to be made in married life
• Importance of open communication
• Importance of Patience, ego and tolerance in married life
• Sacrifices in married life

Salient features of the program

• The program is conducted as a two days workshop.
• Attendance to all sessions is a must.
• Couples married for 10 years or less can join.
• All sessions are interactive with lot of activities and participation.
• The details of each sessions are as follows laws.

No.	Participants	No. of Sessions
1	Introduction (All family Members)	1
2	Wife	4
3	Husband	1
4	Husband & Wife	1
5	Husband, Mother & Father in Law	1
6	Mother in Law	1
7	Closing Ceremony (All family Members)	1
	Total	10

The Program benefits :

The Candidates

• It helps to brings the couple more closer and increase their communication.
• It helps the couples to understand that we all are different and that we need to respect each other.
• It makes the couples to share all the responsibilities together.
• It also makes the husband realize that it is his responsibility to make the wife comfortable in the new home.
• This course increases the communication between all members.
• This also emphasizes that the new bahu is now the part of our family.

The Family

• Greater communication amongst family members.
• Giving time and space to understand the new environment and each others.
• Caring and sharing amongst members.
• Willingly Sacrificing and responsibility sharing

The Society

This program helps to preserve the concept of Family in Indian Society which in the past 20 to 30 years has shown greater fragility and break ups.

Date:

02nd & 03rd March 2013 (Two Days)

Venue: 

Bhagwan Mahaveer Jain College, Jc Road, Bangalore

Training Schedule & Sessions: 

Date : 02.03.2013 Day - 1

1st Session - 09.00 am to 11.00 am
To be Attended by Couple and Husband's Parents

2nd Session - 11.00 am to 01.00 am
To be Attended by Wife Only.

Lunch - 01.00 pm to 02.00 pm

3rd Session - 02.00 pm to 03.45 pm
To be Attended by Wife Only.

High Tea - 03.45 pm to 04.00 pm

4th Session - 04.00 pm to 06.30 pm
To Be Attended by Wife Only.

Date : 03.03.2013 Day - 2

1st Session - 09.00 am to 11.00 am
To be Attended by Husband Only

2nd Session - 11.00 am to 01.00 am
To be Attended by Husband and his Parents Only.

Lunch - 01.00 pm to 02.00 pm

3rd Session - 02.00 pm to 03.45 pm
To be Attended by only Mother in Law of the Wife .

High Tea - 03.45 pm to 04.00 pm

4th Session - 04.00 pm to 06.30 pm
To Be Attended by all members.

Pease Register with Jc Prince Golecha @ 9008006364

With Every Good Wish
JFM Dilip Jain
Secretary